A friend and I (both 30yo males) are thinking of getting our pictures taken with the Easter bunny while wearing overalls and a propeller hat. my sister says it’ll be immature and that if I were to show a girl they would immediately be turned off.

We feel it’ll be funny and a good ice breaker with girls or anyone else for that matter. But now I’m kinda questioning it.

    • jqubed@lemmy.world
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      17 days ago

      Actually I’ve done very well with girls who think I’m a dork, in an endearing way

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        17 days ago

        Yeah it depends on our views of dork status. Some of us look for that in a fella. And hope he doesn’t mind our dorkiness too.

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    17 days ago

    Don’t worry about girls, don’t worry about showing it to girls. Go have fun with your friend and make some good memories doing something goofy.

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    17 days ago

    Do it. Don’t show a girl. Keep it for your kids before they turn 10. After 10 they don’t care shit about you. But before 10 you’re hilarious.

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    17 days ago

    Immature or not, that’s your sense of humor. If a woman has an issue with the picture, there’s a decent chance you won’t get along anyway, so in that way it would actually be a good compatibility litmus test.

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    17 days ago

    Will it be funny you think? Do it.

    What kind of girl do you want to attract anyway? Do you want a full l girl that thinks that kind of stuff is funny or do you want a girl that finds it immature?

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    17 days ago

    Do it. Who cares what girls think! But if you’re trying to attract one then maybe wait a bit before showing her the dumb shit you like doing with your mates.

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    17 days ago

    If a woman i wanted to date didn’t find me funny when i do goofy shit, then she would quickly become a woman i dont want to date.

    I can be immature without that being my whole personality. I am mature when it’s appropriate and immature when it’s appropriate.

    Just be yourself. You dont want to lock it all away to be in a relationship with someone who can’t laugh at a well-timed fart.

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    16 days ago

    The world needs more silliness and whimsy. Don’t be afraid to be cringe, you will be free.

    You also have an obligation to share the image when you take it.

  • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
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    16 days ago

    a few points: 1) don’t let your sister talk you out of fun. 2) your sister knows less about fashion than david alan grier. 3) the most immature thing you can do is worry about whether something is immature. 4) just do what you want. have fun.

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    16 days ago

    The least sexy thing in your post is how miserable your sister seems to be.

    Humor is sexy. If a woman won’t date you because you took that photo as a joke, you’re dodging a bullet.

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    16 days ago

    You and your friend seem to not take yourselves too serious, which is a nice trait.

    Your sister seems a bit too uptight.