Lack of respect. For self or others.
Using Lemmy
Smoking is probably the biggest one for me though tattoos are pretty awful as well.
Intentional poor spelling.
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Why the hell can’t you spell colour?!
No Ragrets
I get the joke, but seems more like German auto correction
True. It does match the profile, but I am usually not in the habit of profile diving unless I smell a troll.
Seems to me this person might be German (considering the username as well) and used the German word by accident.
I didnt even notice it. But yes i am german and dislexic
Mistakes are OK! (I added the word “intentional” as an afterthought to cover this contingency as the statement still remains true.)
So “international poor spelling” ?
Yeah, don’t worry, I get it. Just thought I’d give a possible explanation. ;)
I’m very intolerant of behavior that tells me type of people they are. For example throwing garbage on the floor, or being unkind to serving staff, or something like that. Red flags for sure.
And of course there’s the obvious stuff that is an instant deal breaker, like bigotry, being anti-vax, hating cats (or animals in general), right-wing politics, etc.
Not returning a shopping cart to the cart corral is an interesting litmus test to see how decent people can be. At least for me.
“That’s what they get paid to do.” Nah that doesn’t sit well with me. Being a lazy dick is not attractive.
Smoking.
Gonna go out on a limb here and say the obvious: being unattractive.
This question is always fishing for the “weird” things, or for ways for everyone to pat themselves on the back for not being shallow and expressing their moral standpoints in their dating preferences.
But in this day and age, it is always worth it to return to the fundamentals and focus on the obvious. So what’s obvious?
- Don’t have a fucked up face.
- Don’t be grossly overweight or sickly thin.
- Show minimal signs of aging. If you are aging, age gracefully.
- Don’t neglect basic higiene and grooming.
- Don’t wear ratty or ill-fitting clothes.
- Don’t be sick.
- Don’t be angry or depressed.
So if anyone is actually trying to become more attractive - here is a good starting point. Accept the things you can’t change, and work on the things you can. And yeah, also treat waiters nicely.
Not wanting to put down their phone would rank high for me those days, even higher than smoking (which stinks and I know that for a fact, I was a smoker some 20 years ago ;)
If they won’t share the nice warm donut I just pulled out of my pocket.
Smoking
+1
I can find a woman absolutely gorgeous, but as soon as she lights up a ciggie, I’m out. No thanks.
Maggot hat.
Even if it’s the sunlight maggot? How you say no to my boy Solaire?
Fake boobs and inflated lips
Being vacuous
Ie. celebrity worship, a disregard for politics etc.
Not having empathy with animal. Eating and using them is a big No No for me.
There are some kinds of walks that are just a turn off for me, and I’m not talking about ministry of silly walks.
Just if the guys have no tension in their body, no self esteem at all or walk as if they’d explode if their peepee touches either side of the legs, wide legged… Maybe one could call it " the baggy jeans walk"? Actually it’s hard to describe, but maybe you get it?
