I am a social guy, talking to people comes quite natural to me. Therefore I make friends easily. I have had a ton of crushes and was also in love for a couple of times. However I have never had any relationship to speak of (I’m 25, btw), and I feel like I’m missing out on something.
When it comes to relationships I honestly don’t know how people do it. I don’t know what makes someone “like” someone else, safe for their appearance. Or how someone “starts” to see another as a romantic partner rather than platonic. I feel like I only know how to serve friendship. So how do people develop feelings for someone?
What about if you don’t want anything too serious?
Nothing wrong with that, but then what is your actual challenge here?
I don’t know, that’s a good question. How to convey that to the other person, I guess?
“I am not looking for anything serious.”
To answer the title question: they start looking for something serious with someone.
Yeah, the solution is just using your words.
It’s not clear to me yet what you want: not too serious, but more than friends, so… sex? Not judging, just trying to understand. And maybe you don’t know yet.