If you truly love your partner, does a ring and a ceremony really do anything?

I know there are certain legal situations where an official marriage changes who has certain rights, but aren’t those same rights available if you make other legally-official decisions E.G. a will or trusts, etc?

I’m generally curious why people get married beyond the “because I love them” when it costs so much money.

  • win95@lemmy.zip
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    17 hours ago

    My partner and I wanted it for legal reasons, especially since I’m disabled so he can make medical decisions etc.

    We can either "register as partners’ or get married. Both cost the same. Marriage had a wedding party. Costs a lil bit more, but brought together all of our friends and had a beautiful day. So why choose boring?

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      4 hours ago

      Had a coworker who got married because the paperwork (or rather leak thereof) for the dad when they had kids.

      For me it was a way of showing my love, a way of showing that I want to commit long term.