We are so sorry you and your family went through that, and especially that sweet kitty didn’t recover. Watching a pet suffer, then lose them, is heartbreak on repeat.

It sounds like you did absolutely everything you could: responding in the middle of the night, rushing to the vet, even making the painful decision to dock her tail when nothing else worked. That’s love, compassion, and bravery right there.

Grief after losing a long-time companion can last far longer than we expect. A few things that sometimes help:

Honor her memory: A small memorial, maybe a framed photo, a planted flower in the garden, or a donation in her name to a local shelter, can give a place to visit when you miss her.

Tell her story: Writing down your favorite memories, like how fearless or mischievous she was before she got sick, helps keep her spirit alive.

Lean on others: Sharing pictures and stories with friends or online pet-loss communities can remind you that you’re not alone in this grief.

Be gentle with yourself: It’s okay to have good days and bad days. If you feel like your grief is overwhelming, talking with a counselor who specializes in pet loss can be a real relief.

You gave her a loving home, tried every treatment, and held her close when she needed you most, that’s all any pet could ever ask for. It’s natural to miss her every day. She was lucky to have you. ❤️