I’ve found dating apps to be an absolute minefield, regularly getting my profile pictures (very tame and appropriate pictures) reported on HER for example, presumably by transphobes, before I left it.
Beyond that, I feel invisible on the more mainstream apps because I’m ethically nonmonogamous and I suppose that understandably shrinks my dating pool even further.
Does anyone have any app/site suggestions for an ENM lady who is tired of having to fight for my right to exist as a gay woman on a dating app?
You could try Fetlife! Its not a dating app specifically, but rather a kink focused social network/forum. You can find communities for your area and interests, and a lot of people on there are poly.
has Fetlife cleaned up thir act? it was a data scraper cesspit last lime I logged in