my bf of almost three months (we’ve been friends for about a year or two) is always feeling stressed, depressed, or empty. i want to help him, so im just there with him and remind him that i’m there even when he doesn’t feel like talking or we don’t have much to say.

due to his feelings, he also doesn’t know what he wants, and while he loves me, he doesn’t know if he wants to talk to me and be around me or not. it makes me really sad, he’s also had a bad childhood. i wanna be there for him but he also doesn’t know what he wants and i feel sad thinking about and worrying about how sad he is.

he’s been reading my messages and not replying or being offline more than usual.

  • OsrsNeedsF2P@lemmy.ml
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    7 hours ago

    Are those hobbies helping develop your character? If both of you keep these hobbies up for a year, where will you be?

    • jay (he/they)@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      7 hours ago

      well, i’ll be a lot more fluent in norwegian and a lot better artist. he’ll be a better gamer than he already is due to practice