• Dasus@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    As an exercise, imagine you are a gay man and you went to talk about it with a priest. Now imagine the same gay man going to talk about it with an Imam. How do you think these conversations would go?

    Both would work quite well in Finland.

    In Iran or the US, theocracies, they wouldn’t work either.

    You know that monotheism is exclusive and hates differences. Yet you’re too fucking scared to call them out on what they are, because the Mary-Sues and Josephs at your local bible-camp wouldn’t like it.

    Monotheism is absolute cancer which hates everything different.

    Anyone who’s read basics of history and theology knows that

    Back in polytheistic societies like Norway and Greece etc, people were far more progressive than comparative monotheist societies.

    Yet you defending Christianity. It’s ridiculous. You don’t know anything and you don’t follow any tenets. So you don’t actually believe in the 10 commandments. Who the fuck does?

    Yet you’re too scared to call it the BS it is. You can still enjoy community without claiming to be a Christian. Perhaps in America you can’t…?

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      You can still enjoy community without claiming to be a Christian. Perhaps in America you can’t…?

      I’m born and raised in Brazil. Lived in the US from 2008 to 2013. Now I’m living in Germany - more specifically, in Berlin.

      In the US, I had some family and friends. In Germany I was all on my own, so I’ve tried getting integrated. I went out to meet different people. I wasn’t just stuck in my room all day long. The friends that I did do turned out to be invariably Italians, Polish, Israelis, Spaniards. The best I could say about the people from Nordic backgrounds were “they are my acquaintance”. Dating in Berlin was weird - much similar to New York - where I’d never know if I was just getting myself into some mindless hook-up or a detailed plan establishing the contract terms of the relationship.

      I was in 3 years already in Berlin and I was seriously considering moving out, when I’ve met a (Greek) woman who I am so very lucky to be able to call “my wife”. She had moved to Berlin just one year before me, and though she had a much larger social circle than mine, they were also mostly of other Greeks. When we started dating, her group of friends didn’t see me as an attachment to her friend. They took me in as part of the group. I’ve became friends with them as well, we would go play ball or hang out even if my then-girlfriend couldn’t make that one night.

      All of this to say: you are getting at this backwards. I’m not saying that I went to the religion to get “accepted” by peers. What I am saying is that even when I was surrounded by people, they were pretty much all of them completely atomized individuals. This feeling only changed when I found myself closer to people with other cultures who still have a higher attachment to their cultural roots.

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        I don’t care for your personal history, it had absolutely nothing to do with Christianity, which is the topic of the thread.

        Monotheism is bad and religious people, monotheists especially, are usually dragged into progressive values despite their resistance to them.

        It’s beyond insane how much of the world you’re having to ignore just to keep identifying as a Christian despite not believing in single tenet of the religion.

        So I remind you of the argument I said before; it genuinely wouldn’t make any rhetorical difference what religion you changed into this conversation for Christianity. You ask whether Christianity is compatible with being trans, but then you refuse to say what notion of being Christian is.

        So I’m to just take it that you just like to think your Christian, despite deriving all your personal moral from the world, like people do?

        You can’t name what these “Christian values” are that you’re asking about. Yet you insist that you have them.

        Wtf?

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          You ask whether Christianity is compatible with being trans

          I didn’t say any such thing. I asked (someone else, a “self-professed” Christian, not you!) the opposite of that: I asked what was so bad about having a community of people who are trying to reconcile their life choices with their Christian faith.

          The other guy went on to say “they are using the flag! The flag is a sign of people who do not repent, and that is sin”. Okay, I think this answer is stupid and left at that.

          You on the other hand got on a little a soapbox to expose yourself as the utmost authority about all and any religion. Congrats! Do you want a cookie before or after I block you and go on with my day?

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            Alright, sure, "the topic of this thread, which you’re defending, is", does that make you feel better, and can you now you start answering, or is just that you’re arguing in such bad faith you have zero intention of answering ANYTHING?

            “Soapbox”.

            Again, I’m not an atheist, buddy. I’ve simply asked very simple questions, like “please elaborate on what you think ‘Christian values’ means” which you keep avoiding, because you can’t define it. Because it’s all hypocrisy and not a genuinely held belief. Which just proves what utter bullshit it is.

            Monotheism is cancer, yet you keep defending it.

            edit oh and why would I give two fucks about who you block?

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              Again, I’m not an atheist, buddy.

              You don’t have to be an Atheist to want a soapbox. All it takes is an insufferable know-it-all who thinks that repeating nonsensical slogans makes for a compelling argument.

              Enjoy your evening.

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                Words have meanings. What is it you think I’m “soapboxing” here? By that logic, you could just dismiss literally anything online. "You just want a soapbox, so I’m not gonna answer your EXTREMELY VALID QUESTIONS THAT YOU GAVE AS AN ANSWER TO A POST ON A FORUM.

                Alright, “buddy”, be a hypocrite. I do care for the world, because hypocrites make the world suffer, but I don’t care about you personally. I just care that your personal ego and fears are in the way of a good world we could have.

                You’re defending a view… without being able to defend it in any way or without answering any of the questions put to you. The topic of this thread is “is being Christian compatible with being trans”, but you refuse to talk about it.