• DarkCloud@lemmy.world
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    18 hours ago

    Yeah they think it’s extraordinary to not be having sex when single, so it’s women’s fault.

    When being sexless is the majority of what being single means.

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        18 hours ago

        I’d call your user name “weird”, but I’m not one to use social pressures like that, and would rather have conversations where the actual issues and causes are discussed.

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            17 hours ago

            You seem deaf to what I’m saying. There are cultural tensions involved. Yes people choose their ethical compliances but those choices are always constrained by cultural, educational, and structural bounds. The cultural messaging of the time.

            Before this generation were the first school shooters, before them it was satanic panic related crimes, before them it was the first post WW2 street gangs.

            These are all topics that insert violence into cultural frameworks without having the necessary discussions of causes and the messaging around these frameworks.

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        18 hours ago

        I’m trying to normalize that singles aren’t having sex…

        … because the feeling that young men not having sex is abnormal causes a bad mindset.

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            17 hours ago

            You’ll often find discussions in the comments section (also your first comment to me asked me to explain my views).