Matt Walsh (Real)@sh.itjust.works to Greentext@sh.itjust.works · edit-210 months agoAnon has a master plan to get revengeracist.rodeoimagemessage-square27fedilinkarrow-up1460arrow-down127
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minus-squareViking_Hippie@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up9arrow-down1·10 months agoCan’t victim blame if there’s no victim to blame.
minus-squarethe_crotch@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·9 months agoOffering advice to prevent such a situation isn’t victim blaming
minus-squareViking_Hippie@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down3·edit-29 months agoAdvice after the fact is a useless lecture, a form of victim blaming. Saying “if you hadn’t done x, crime y wouldn’t have happened” to the victim of a crime is the very definition of victim blaming.
minus-squarethe_crotch@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up3arrow-down1·9 months agoOOP isn’t in this thread. I don’t think the user you’re chastising intended to give OOP advice, the advice was for the rest of us.
minus-squareViking_Hippie@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down3·9 months agoStill textbook victim blaming rather than the benevolent “advice” you seem adamant to reframe it as.
minus-squarethe_crotch@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2arrow-down1·9 months agoSure, champ. Everything is victim blaming.
minus-squareViking_Hippie@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down2·9 months agoNope. But “you wouldn’t have been a victim if not for trusting your apparent friend” very much is. People trust their friends with their laptops without being victimized every fucking day.
minus-squarethe_crotch@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·9 months agoWhy did you put that in quotation marks when it’s not at all what they said? It’s not a quote, it’s barely even a paraphrase.
Can’t victim blame if there’s no victim to blame.
Offering advice to prevent such a situation isn’t victim blaming
Advice after the fact is a useless lecture, a form of victim blaming.
Saying “if you hadn’t done x, crime y wouldn’t have happened” to the victim of a crime is the very definition of victim blaming.
OOP isn’t in this thread. I don’t think the user you’re chastising intended to give OOP advice, the advice was for the rest of us.
Still textbook victim blaming rather than the benevolent “advice” you seem adamant to reframe it as.
Sure, champ. Everything is victim blaming.
Nope. But “you wouldn’t have been a victim if not for trusting your apparent friend” very much is.
People trust their friends with their laptops without being victimized every fucking day.
Why did you put that in quotation marks when it’s not at all what they said? It’s not a quote, it’s barely even a paraphrase.