• brbposting@sh.itjust.works
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    3 months ago

    I’ve grappled with “retard” & “bitch” (made a thread about it a couple months ago too, trying to form/reform my opinion).

    Clearly we have to be careful with any messages industry pushes. With that said -

    What do you think about these statements from Special Olympians?

    CC: @[email protected]

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      3 months ago

      I appreciate your good faith response. I see and empathize with your perspective. To play devil’s advocate, you can’t control whether a group of people decide, out of the blue, to internalize hurtful language that isn’t aimed at them. The N-word had a very specific target and a very cruel purpose. The word “retard” did not. It basically has the same vernacular trajectory as “moron,” or “idiot.” From medical diagnosis to non-specific pejorative. Why aren’t those synonyms verboten? Because people like to make things about themselves.

      • Dragon Rider (drag)@lemmy.nz
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        3 months ago

        It comes from the medical diagnosis “mental retardation”. It was designed from the beginning to target disabled people.

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      3 months ago

      That is true, if you use it against disabled poeple. I only use it against moronic able poeple who should know better.

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        3 months ago

        Honestly, that’s maybe worse. If you’re using it to say something bad about someone else, that means it’s a bad thing and should be condemned. The people who it is actually meant to apply to (in its original meaning) then see them, as a group, as a thing that is insulting to even be associated with.

        It’s wild how hard critical thought is for some people while discussing a word about intelligence…