Being this pushy about an ex is (I feel) a red flag.
Yeah, but like I said this doesn’t really apply if she can sense that there is actually something messed up that he’s trying to hide. Which there is. Just being randomly pushy about it, I agree, that would be weird. But this is like someone getting mad when driving drunk because the police pulled them over for no reason. Like no… I pulled you over because you were driving drunk.
In the end, both parties involved are being stupid and toxic and probably just shouldn’t be together in the first place cause it will just escalate unless they can grow enough as people.
As far as the man, I completely agree. You have absolutely no basis for saying that the woman in this story needs to grow, though. Again: He’s hiding something and (presumably) she’s digging because she can sense he’s hiding something. That is my read of it. She could also be toxic and just digging because of some pathology on her part, but not necessarily.
Yeah, but like I said this doesn’t really apply if she can sense that there is actually something messed up that he’s trying to hide. Which there is. Just being randomly pushy about it, I agree, that would be weird. But this is like someone getting mad when driving drunk because the police pulled them over for no reason. Like no… I pulled you over because you were driving drunk.
As far as the man, I completely agree. You have absolutely no basis for saying that the woman in this story needs to grow, though. Again: He’s hiding something and (presumably) she’s digging because she can sense he’s hiding something. That is my read of it. She could also be toxic and just digging because of some pathology on her part, but not necessarily.
Fair, we are only seeing this from a 4chan-er’s perspective (which is obviously fake and gay)
Yeah the whole thing is hilarious to me.
“I lied to my gf and now I have problems”
“I’m super edgelord”
“Keep lying, that’ll work, she’s the problem”
“You guys are hanging out with women?”
I was just randomly inserting my attempt at some actual advice into the mixture.