As the title says, today I managed to call my friend and basically have my coming out. As expected he was basically like “nice. Got a new name or something I have to be careful about?” (I currently havent decided on anything yet) The talk felt good and it devinetively helped a little bit with the hate for myself and I no longer feel absolutely terrible all the time. I still feel kinda terrible due to the feeling of having a hole ripped in my chest, but it devinetively got better after that.
That’s a good friend, which you probably got by being a good person.
Funny enough is, that I met him through Lemmy. We didnt live that far away and it was a quitefcool coincidence, that I happened to move around near him for university (its around a 20 Minute drive to him). But yeah, hes a very good friend.
Well done! You’ve got the hard part done now <3
I would consider that the easy part. There are some other people to which coming out will be much harder.
That’s unfortunately true sometimes. You might have to have those conversations by yourself, but you are not alone.