• reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca
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    1 month ago

    A someone who became middle aged with it (ADHD), not knowing what it really was or how it was affecting me, it is worth the effort.

    They didn’t really prepare me for how much being medicated would change my life. Not that it cures everything, but I had to deal with a profound sense of loss for a few weeks after getting setup.

    I found it really hard when I started to remember all of the missed opportunities and experiences that this condition had taken from me over the years. If ADHD is the cause or a factor, she will thank you later.

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      1 month ago

      I wish my parents had got me help. The poor things couldn’t help themselves though.

      I waited too late with my daughter really, but we had a lot going on for a long time. Her mom lost her mind and totally threw everything in the wind and then got diagnosed with cancer and suffered horribly before dying.

      I’m hoping I can get her turned around now.

      My doctor won’t treat me (I definitely have adhd)because I’ve been on suboxone for a decade and they’re afraid I’ll abuse it I guess. I could go somewhere else but starting over on this is a nightmare. He says if I tested positive he’d have to put me in rehab.

      When I began I had to dose in front of a doctor every morning. That went on for several months, then I went once a week. That went on for several more months, then once every two. Several more months of that and finally once a month.

      On top of that, I had to go to group three times a week and one group with an actual psychologist once a month.

      I’d love to be able to use my brain. It has taken me over an hour to type this comment haha. I keep forgetting and then coming back by accident when I look at my phone.

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        1 month ago

        I’m sorry you are going through that.

        I didn’t think the meds for adhd were addictive to people who have it?

        My limited understanding is that whereas they would make a non-divergent person “high”, they make me more calm, collected and able to sort my thoughts. Just like Caffine and sugar often makes me sleepy. It’s kinda opposite.

        My Dr. Told me that if I had ADHD, I would know pretty quickly when I took my first, very small, dose because if I didn’t have the condition, I would feel like I suddenly had too much energy, or like my body was vibrating.

        The only thing I noticed first was that I could recall what I had to do later that day, which would not be the case otherwise.