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  • Yeah i was half awake, a bit harsh ig.

    Maybe a better formed argument is that getting into a marriage legally is way too easy compared to the legal process of leaving one. Even if you have all your things in order and everything is completely amicable the dissolution can be a a very drawn out process, especially if you can’t be present in the state you were married in.

    The part about being in a hospital, only applies if the partner is not conscious, otherwise they can consent. Some other counties have another method for this where if you’ve simply lived together long enough those sorts of protections exist. So yeah you have a fair argument in the US. Is it a valid reason for legally formalizing your marriage? That’s up to you and your partner to decide.

    I think my major annoyance is that people put emotional value into the legal matter of marriage as though law and the state had some interpersonal value.










  • Beyond missing the subtext…

    I don’t actually read all that much. I’m excruciatingly slow and i don’t currently commute. Most of my reading was on public transit or camping. But the authors i like just happen to either be ok with sharing copies of their work or it’s available for free anyways. That said I’ve bought maybe twenty books in the last decade…

    Textbooks from exploitative publishers especially i refuse to pay for. E.g. Wiley, pearson, McGraw-Hill, etc… As well technical publications and journals.

    The great Gatsby was provided by school when i read it. All the books were in my k-12. Most the students couldn’t afford them.



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    The idea is expressed for catharsis. It’s only going to push awful people further into caustic masculine behaviors. So it’s not actually directed at them, its target audience is other folk who have to deal with their awful behaviors.

    As long as you’re not unnecessarily approaching strangers in public and you build trust in your personal relationships then you can safely ignore it.

    Edit: actually you kind of need to once you understand the problem being described or your mental health will take a severe hit. Talking from experience here…





  • The snopes article doesn’t say it’s outright false, just that it’s not based on available evidence. So stating it as fact rather than rumor is misinformation.

    The Vatican has failed to deny it for over 20 years of inquiry. The impact of this claim is benign compared to pretty much anything else the church has factually done.

    it’s funny and harmless, meme on.