032 Mendicant Bias

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Cake day: March 7th, 2025

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  • Don’t want to discredit your experience but…

    Me and my wife visited Copenhagen for a short city break back before we were married (and before we had much money). People were very welcoming. For example, we visited a small wine bar and could only afford the very cheapest option, the owner did not care at all and happily hosted us for the duration. Same at the coffee spot across from the hotel - guy there helped us get our bearings.

    Now, that’s not particularly noteworthy compared to other places in Europe that we’ve visited, but we definitely never felt unwelcome. The only issue I had with Copenhagen is a me-issue, I’m not a seafood person at all, and that’s a huge part of their cuisine. I’m fact, that’s a recurring issue for me. Love food, but not seafood! But then love places that love seafood! Argh!








  • I’m close to paying mine off so I will weigh in here.

    Probably best to avoid “lifestyle creep”, this is money you haven’t had before now and it should probably be put straight into some investment, a stocks and shares ISA for example, or to overpay the mortgage (or save for deposit, so I guess that’s LISA these days). I’m assuming since you’re actually able to pay it off then you must be on decent money and you won’t “need” the extra couple hundred quid a month.

    Other thing to realise is that the 9% over whatever amount you’ve been paying back was after tax. So I think there’s some decent argument to be made that you’re leaving money on the table if you don’t instead redirect a larger portion of your gross salary into your pension via salary sacrifice. Then instead of paying the tax man you instead significantly increase the contributions to your private pension.

    I’m guessing the UK financial advice sub (or I guess “com” if there’s one here on Lemmy, sorry, I’m new here) would be a good place to ask.