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  • Supervisor194@lemmy.worldto196@lemmy.worldrulez
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    10 hours ago

    Tickling a little bit is fine if you know for certain you’re dealing with a kid who is having fun - ie: they keep coming back after a little bit of it. If the kid doesn’t want you to do it please fucking don’t. Speaking as a kid who hated it, it was like torture and it’s a curse, because you can’t help but laugh while it’s happening so it seems like good fun even when it’s goddamn well not.











  • MAGA people can’t feel shame over any of this, they are incapable. This is a wealth and religion thing, you’ll notice MAGA people are nearly universally either wealthy, religious or both.

    Particularly in America (because of the historical confluence of wealth and religion) these two types of people don’t experience shame the same way normal people do. Wealthy people’s sense of superiority over their position in society has bred in them the notion that shame is for their lessers. The richer they are, the worse this is. Religious people feel that nothing in the world is more righteous than sticking it to nonbelievers and no effort put forth in pursuit of that goal can be considered shameful. In fact, the opposite. In any case their shame quotient is sodden with their own repressed sexuality.


  • You might think you do, but the stock market is wholly price controlled. Even the Great Recession will never happen again. The market is controlled by huge banks and hedge funds using HFT algorithms and dark pools. Price means nothing and big drops are in any case performative.

    The following weeks will demonstrate this, as the bounce(s) will take back the great majority of the perceived losses. Behind the scenes, of course, these same institutions love being given the opportunity to display this performative disapproval, as they make untold fortunes using the stock market as their own personal pump and dump.



  • Saying “I would have no way to know” is not the same thing as “I’m a moron and can’t look shit up.” You have to think you don’t know what something means before you’re going to go look it up.

    I never looked up unalived, because I didn’t know it had some stupid context that would set somebody off and it’s meaning is plain. If you think that makes me an idiot, then I guess that’s just how it has to be. I think you should maybe relax a little.



  • Well, you’ve made an assumption and I get it now, but it’s wrong.

    Aside from Lemmy and Reddit, and mostly Lemmy these days, I’m not on any social media at all. I’ve never been on TikTok. I quit Facebook a year after I joined it - horrified by what it was doing - in 2007. I’ve never been on Twitter, I’ve never been on Twitch or Instagram, I’ve never been on any site where I had to avoid a filter, ever. In my life. Before reddit it was something awful and before that usenet. I’m fucking old.

    So I didn’t use the word because I am capitulating to capitalist censorship. I used the word here - and iirc I have used it in the past - as what I thought was simply a wry euphemism implying state-sponsored spycraft/murder. I consider the word assassination to be too “bottom-up” of a term - citizens assassinate presidents, not the other way around. Murder is too generic, murder is what criminals do or people do in crimes of passion. So I used “unalived” because I’m talking about a state actor doing something to a citizen.

    I did not know that it carried any other meaning, nor that it came to prominence from circumventing censorship algorithms. I would have had no way to know.

    Edit: I would never use some goofy shit like “seggs” for “sex” ffs, so I do see people here and on reddit who are in the habit of circumventing filters - but there’s nothing about “unalived” that screamed anything other than “wry euphemism” to me.


  • Why not? Why do you feel compelled to apply peer pressure to make sure other users’ language conforms to that which you approve? Who can say.

    Edit: perhaps I’m just going about this all wrong. Let me ask you: are you trying to help me? Do you think my life would be improved if I used the word “assassinate” in this context instead of “unalived?” Or is it just that it grates on your nerves so much to see people use terms that are commonly used to get around filters that you feel obliged to correct me so I won’t do it in the future, materially improving your life? Because this issue seems to be really important to you and I’d like this conversation to end amicably. Maybe you can convince me why it’s in my best interest to not use this word and words like it.