Yes you’re right but what I’m talking about refers to the job side alone. I’m going to opt for one of these three things, and I don’t know how to choose

You’re right.

Well I’ve always been great with languages, intuitive with technology (but I’d prefer to avoid working with it, or living with it in general), I’m detail oriented and good at getting organized (when I know what I want haha). I like helping people, I’m understanding and I love interacting with others, I’m curious and I like variety even though I’m a bit introverted and reserved. But being of service is a good way for me to bridge that gap, if it makes sense.

I like researching and collecting stuff, mostly when it comes to things I like, be it music or films or books.

Well of course, but the context is I’m choosing what to major in… And if you read you’ll see I’m choosing between things I don’t hate that much for more job opportunities, but still in hope I’ll get a chance at something I like.

Love is a big word but that’s what came to me in the moment, and being that ppl ho read me usually can contextualize, I used it without fear of being misinterpreted this much

I’m 27 unfortunately… English is not my first language, if that’s what you referred to by phrasing. I hope it’s not bc of my situation, but I’d get it haha

If you were in a relationship and knew someone who you’re not into was infatuated with you, how would you want them to act? I doubt you’d want them to pursue you or conversely treat you like toxic waste just to cope.

And Thank you, this was great and I totally agree. My problem is that I get very very weird, and it’s the first time this has happened to me with someone. I turn red, try looking away, my whole body gets weird, totally “weak in the knees” type of thing. I just feel the need to escape the situation and whatever I try to do (avoid him/calm down/be nice…) it just makes me feel worse

That’s what makes it difficult. I don’t want it to look as if I’m avoiding him for who knows what reason (in his perspective), also bc this already led to a weird situation. Not that it would affect his life that much, we’re not friends or anything, but he’s been nice to me and I don’t want to be mean as much as I don’t want to be creepy