Smol girlthing from the deepest trenches of the sea.
“A puppy is defined not by their lack of facial hair but for the lack of evil in their heart.”
© me, making shit up
Yes, puppyboys ftw!!
NeUwUdivergent creatures are safe here!!
We must make this real, for everyone’s sake!
We’ll replace prayers with praises instead~
I CRANK MY HOG THE WAY I TREAT MY PUPPY GF - GENTLY AND WITH RESPECT!!
Then you’re God
Sounds like you are a really good partner then!!
At least in this place you can go “arf arf” wherever you want :3
I’m going through the manga, it’s pretty fun~
Goals
Don’t underestimate at what lengths people will go to avoid a thought that someone they know might be gay!
Good girl :3
Future you is hypothetical, present you is awesome and great :3
Problems are unavoidable but at least we can prepare for them. I wish someone could explain this to me back when I was at school, instead of fearmongering me daily that I will be kicked out and die on streets.
I don’t think you’re fucked at all. Your life situation like that for a reason, and that reason can be treated and fixed. I mean, I don’t know your situation so I can’t really say for sure but I believe you’ll be able to deal with it.
Supportive people are of a huge help, whether online or IRL. It may be hard to befriend people and keep the friendship but it’ll possibly be the hardest step to make, as the next ones will be done with others.
I also find it helpful to keep some hopeful and affirming media around, for times when my mental issues cause me to fail. E.g., rewatching some Bocchi the rock episodes help me cope with anxiety when it leads me to fail something important.
Therapy can also be an option but it costs money so I can’t say if it’s an option for you.
I’m not from the eagle country either (though not in a better place) and by being quite close with my femme relatives I’ve seen this shit happen on many occasions.
It’s almost never polite, it’s never “well I think that would be better”. Oftentimes the “advice” is done with an insult, e.g. by comparing a woman to a prostitute.
Usually they’re just strangers who has no business telling her how she should dress. And yes, if it was a woman saying this it would still be equally bad. But it’s rarely a woman, 99% of the time it’s a man.
Yeah, the premise that all men must be ignored is bad but it’s the emotional response that often develops after yet another such an idiot opens his mouth.
Bigoted men often comment on women’s appearance.
“Too much makeup.” “Your skirt is too short.” “You should smile more.”
It goes without saying that the women they’re judging weren’t asking for their opinions.
Thinking about men’s opinions about me: I don’t care B)
Me when one (1) man insults me: ;-;
I cute, therefore I am