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Cake day: September 15th, 2023

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  • Ooo a turtleneck would look great under a dress! So, shapes are probably the easiest way to look for dresses and skirts. “A-line” is the best for fitting all body types, and will usually give you that traditional flared shape at the bottom with the smallest part at the waist. If you want something more tight/closer to the legs try ‘sheathe’ skirt, and super tight skirts that wrap really close to the legs will be ‘pencil’ skirt. (I’d only recommend pencil skirts if you got a big booty with wide hips, but that’s personal preference; those mfers are hard to move in)

    As for the kind of dress you were looking for, try ‘square neck sleeveless’ in your search. That should give you something close to the pic I’ll attach. If you want smaller straps than that remove the square neck part and just try ‘sleeveless’. You can also look for ‘work style’ or ‘uniform dress’ which might give you that shape too. A ‘romper dress’ might get you close, but I think those sometimes have shorts sewn under the skirt.

    For shoes a ‘flat’, ‘ballerina flat’, ‘loafer’, or some boots would look cute with this kind of dress. If you like the school uniform shoe look try ‘mary janes’, they usually have a rounded toe with a lil strap across the top.

    “Women’s” clothes are all over the place in sizes, so measure yourself if you can, and when in doubt order larger, cuz they’re horrible at consistency. “Men’s” clothes are way easier for getting sizes right, so those shirts are way more comfy.

    I put a lot, but hope it helps, love! Happy shopping!



  • If I remember correctly, a pinafore is more like an apron style that has straps/buttons and a romper is worn over a sweater or shirt, but I’m not good at fashion so don’t quote me on that. I just want to encourage everyone to try be their most genuine self and sometimes knowing a term to search for can help get you started. I assumed corduroy because of the color!











  • getoffthedrugsdude@lemmy.mltoAutism@lemmy.worldTests
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    27 days ago

    Keep in mind that modern medicine is still catching up to reality when it comes to actual lived experiences of Autistic people, and that ableism around this often invisible disability can be difficult to overcome.

    I’m linking the site that I got the most use out of when I was first looking into getting tested, but keep in mind that they are asking about your entire life, not just recent events. There’s over 20 tests on this one page, take breaks if you feel overwhelmed.

    Example: You mentioned hearing things others can’t. At any point in your life, going back to early childhood, could this apply to you?

    I have Autism and ADHD, and frequently I cannot tune out certain auditory stimuli no matter how hard I try, and it can affect my concentration and emotional regulation to the point of causing a breakdown. Common noises that affect me are electrical buzzing/higher frequencies that most people can just tune out without thought, or the low rumble of diesel engines. Most people can hear the truck idling outside only if they concentrate, but for me it’s impossible to ignore as soon as they’re on my street. To me, those noises are subtle torture.

    Try not to spend more than 3-4 minutes on these questions, and try not to put too much weight on them; they are self-reporting tools to give you a sense of how Autism may be/has previously impacting/ed your daily life. Remember that it is a spectrum; not every question will apply to you and scoring higher or lower on these just means there are INDICATORS, and different criteria will be used if you seek out an official diagnosis. The current testing criteria for licensed professionals is the DSM-5. Your lived experiences and feelings are valid. If you haven’t already, Unmasking Autism by Dr. Devon Price is an excellent book to start your diagnosis journey, and there’s exercises and resources within the book itself. Make sure to screenshot your results, too, so you don’t lose them.

    Good luck!