

What they said was incredibly dumb, but a lot of this is just you masturbating and it doesn’t really help this person improve or really communicate anything helpful to anyone. Perhaps most importantly, there’s no reason to think them incapable of independent thought. The problem is that they are too comfortable not exercising it.
You’re make a false dichotomy to justify your own complacency in doing what you find to be cathartic rather than what is actually beneficial.