Ok. I’ll maybe start with the torpedo that is 10x cheaper and if iit fits but has painful drawbacks reconsider the fryette.

Yes. That’s why i ask advice about power attenuator. It’s not possible to play a hot rod softly. Either the sound is muffled or loud.

Alone in flat with 30m2 living room. I dont want to annoy neighbor so 80dB is my target to play during day.

As for now the amp sim with the most feeling i found are the open source NAM ones in Genome.

For the cabinet IR, Genome is not that grrat either but far from the worse. GGD IRs are fine so far.

For linux users, tonelib is maybe the software for guitar players. Amp sims are a bit dry however.