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Look, man. I have a large body. There are many folds and crevices. I’m not proud of how much effort it takes to keep myself clean, but I’m proud that I’m putting in that effort.
I’m winning insane arguments with myself in there.
You’ll have to tell me how you do that. I always lose insane arguments with myself.
Hot water on skin is comforting and calming like few other things. If I could work from the shower I probably would.
I used to stare off into nothingness in the shower. It would take maybe 7-8 minutes to actually wash myself; sporadically throughout the process, I’d zone out for a couple minutes at a time.
Now, I’ve got long curly hair that needs frequent tending to. Unless I want my showers to be an hour+ long, I gotta stay focused. I still stare off into nothingness while brushing and whatnot, that helps take away the dread.
sporadically throughout the process, I’d zone out for a couple minutes at a time.
Same. And when I come back to the present, I will sometimes lose track of what was washed already because I was on autopilot/dissociating before stopping to stare at nothing.
Next time you wonder whether you already shampooed:
Grab a stretch of hair between thumb and middle finger. Pull/away from head. Listen for squeak. If you hear the squeak, put the shampoo down!
And then feel guilty for wasting so much water.
I want to nitpick the definition of “waste” for a moment. Yes, you are using a lot of water, and energy if the water is heated, BUT if you’re getting something remotely positive out of it (and you’re paying for it), then I would not consider it wasteful. If you genuinely want to label it as something, then let’s compromise and call it therapeutic. Deal?
This is Lemmy, if you use water to water a plant, it never goes anywhere, it disappears entirely and there is no wider system that the water might become a part of, and if you eat an almond you’ve literally used all the water a city would use in a year.
Unless you’re in California or any other area with a low water table. Then it’s a huge issue.
Compare this person’s shower to the many farms growing almonds in the same state.
If I was Governor of California I’d push to make it so Almonds and Alfalfa can’t be grown during the drought seasons.
I can live without a legume and I don’t think I know a single person in my entire circle’s circles who has eaten alfalfa.
The alfalfa isn’t for humans, it’s for high intensity dairy and cattle farming.
It sucks that this is practically occult information. People have no understanding of the damage they do.
If a billionaire enjoyed launching brand new cars off a cliff and considered it therapeutic would it not longer be a waste?
do cars evaporate and reaccumulate in the car supply eventually?
Water in the shower goes down the drain for most people. Probably as much evaporation as an exploded car.
Water in the shower goes down the drain
…where it accumulates in underground caverns for ever!!!
The downvotes are frightening. The small things that millions of people do shape the planet.
I like a warm shower myself, but it comes with some guilt.
Just like with plant based diets it’s really just par for the course. Even the smallest amount of taking accountability is like pulling teeth.
Much easier to blame the evil corporations who exist because billionaires want to destroy the planet and not because consumers buy their things.
Some of us live where a majority or the earth’s fresh water supply is. Water shortages tend to be localized
I really want to take super long showers, but I pay the water bill so…
Fact is, the shower we have is… Strange to say the least.
It’s a wand. Only a wand. Most wand showers also hang up in a way that allows you to just, use it like a normal shower… Not this one. I actually hate it, but don’t have the budget to replace it right now, since it will likely need a partial renovation for the bathroom and that’s our only shower, so everyone is going to get a bit stinky while it’s reno’d.
What I want to do is to add a new bathroom with a shower/bath, then reno the current one, so we can shower during the reno.
Edit: before anyone else comments about how easy it is to change your shower head, I don’t think you understand exactly how strange our shower is. There’s nowhere to put a “normal” shower head. There’s no pipe coming out of the wall at head-height that we can connect a shower head to. The wand literally goes into the wall of the tub when it’s not in use (similar to how the sprayer things work on some kitchen sinks… If you’re familiar with that, but the controls are not just a button on the handle to turn it on, they’re on the edge of the tub.
Weird enough for you?
I can see a cutout in the wall panel of the shower where the diverter should go, and it’s not cut open. We will need to tear out about half of the wall panels to put in the diverter and a standard shower head connector thing… I’m not a plumber, but the one we hired when the original hardware in the shower started leaking took about three days or more to find hardware to install that would work with the odd layout of it.
I know it doesn’t really come across by text, so if you want some semblance of what I’m dealing with, the wand is a bit like this one… Or at least closer to this than what you have in your showers: https://www.livinghouse.co.uk/acatalog/Bath-Rim-Pull-Out-Shower-Head.html
Yeah. I hate it.
Do you know how long a renovation would take? Maybe you could get away with washing with a wet rag/towel to save building a whole new bathroom. Unless you also just want two bathrooms because that’s neat to have.
Oh. We want another bathroom for completely unrelated reasons. Since we considered this place, we knew that we wanted to renovate to put in a bathroom and some other things. It’s always been a part of the plan.
To be brief: the house purchase was a joint venture by myself and my partner with my brother and his partner. We have two family units under the same roof. I won’t get into all of the reasons we decided to go this way, but needless to say, there’s one shower for essentially two families.
Where the current bathrooms and shower are (we have two bathrooms right now, only one has a shower), they’re in my brother’s “side” of the house. My “side” of the house isn’t even plumbed with water at all.
So the plan is, and always has been, to do renovations at some point to bring water over to that side of the house, and have a bathroom installed for my partner and I. We also want our own kitchen and a couple other small things. There’s space to do it, the garage is far larger than we need, so we’re going to convert part of it over to be the new bathroom space, and there’s a good area in our current “living room” that we want to turn into a type of galley kitchen… More or Less.
So by getting those renovations done first, we would have a second shower and the situation in the house would just kind of reverse. Instead of us going into their part of the house to get a shower, they would come to our side until their shower is finished.
That makes a lot of sense, wish you good luck on the whole process
Thanks. I’ll need it.
