• 𝓔𝓶𝓶𝓲𝓮@lemm.ee
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      11 days ago

      The biggest joke are people who care only about genitalia. As long as it is slick and there is some liquid it doesn’t matter all that much what the other party has

      Imagine being some kind of radical feminist lesbian sperging for hours about how men treat us as body parts and then see only vaginas and dicks. The irony

      Are you having sex with a cut of meat or a person

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        The last line has so many words I do not know.

        However, since you distinguish sexual interests from romantic ones in some cases, I wonder where for example “panromantic” or “biromantic” would be on your tier list. Similarly homosexuality is not distniguished from homoromanticism etc…

        Nevermind though, in case it wasn’t your intention to create a more or less “complete” picture.

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        If it’s not for you, then it’s not for you. But one thing I cannot recommend: don’t take those who’s preferences you dislike and assume they reduce people to a piece of meat.

        There’s plenty of fish in the sea. You can find some that do like penis, or don’t care, or both.

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          The thing is sexuality is a continuous spectrum (0,1). Using advanced mathematical apparatus we can prove that every single person is bisexual. That’s why mathematics is fundamentally gay

          Moreover we must consider intersex people. What if their stuff is 20% dick and 80% vagina?

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            Then we need more dimensions in our spectrums. This line from penis to vagina won’t work because both of those have their own unique varying properties

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              11 days ago

              No.

              You just say: I don’t wan to have sex with you.

              You don’t need to explain yourself, like a wimp, or go into muddy waters of stupid definitions

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        Liking one genitalia and not the other is not “traeating people as body parts”. Is it objectivization if a straight cis male likes women, but is not attracted to a transgender woman with male genitalia? I don’t think so…

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          If they are attracted to women with male genitalia exclusively they are called chasers so why would the other way around be any different? Genitalia fetishism is always a bit disgustingly reductive

          You will only avoid all this unnecessary garbage if you do not try to categorise these things in artificial labels and just have sex with who you want. If two people want to fuck then they do it and there is no need to call it a mouthful

          Otherwise you get monstrosities like ‚I am only attracted to white boys below 5’10 during blue moon. I call it xyzuality’ just shut up already and keep sucking

          “Oh I like you I am also abcdsexual with vagina preference hihi” like shut the f up and get on your knees

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            If someone is attracted only to woman with male genitalia is not feticism, nor a “chaser”, it’s a sexual preference and, just like any sexual preference, if it’s carried out in a respectful and non-creepy way, it’s perfectly reasonable and must be respected.

            I agree with the proliferiation of labels not being super useful and possibly damaging, while sexuality is very complex. What I don’t agree with is your critique of “liking only genitalia” = “objectivizing”

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      oki, i just wrote a response but then realised i misunderstood you. sorry about that

      you are right for the situation i described in my comment. you can combine being a lesbian with a lot of other things, to make it a viable contraception.

      i would argue tho, that not liking dick is the entire reason one wouldnt get pregnant in your situation. the lesbian part doesnt matter. meanwhile both a transphobe and a lesbian can get pregnant on their own but a transphobic lesbian can not.

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        “not liking dick” is also not an exclusive condition, as you can have sex with a dick and just not enjoy it.

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        You’re absolutely right. And transphobes are not worth your attention. I prefer to just assume they don’t like penis and not have it bother me, if at all