• SpinMeAround@aussie.zone
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    8 days ago

    Had an awful nightmare about someone from my past and woke up to see that they’d tried to call me at 3:45am (number is blocked, but it shows in my call log). I sent them a polite email “this makes me very uncomfortable, please stop. Also I’m blocking your email address, so do not reply.” I don’t know if that was the right course of action, but I’m just… I just don’t want to see their name in my call log any more. They try and call a couple of times a month and I know it’s not for anything and they’ll always just say “it was an accident” or “I saw a bit of news you might be interested in”. Omg just stop.

    • Seagoon_@aussie.zone
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      8 days ago

      so many hugs

      if they are expecting an immediate response 3.45 am is not good, ( it was a call? not good ) it’s huge boundary breaking

      if they are nightmare material blocking is the right thing to do

      • SpinMeAround@aussie.zone
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        8 days ago

        I was having a nightmare about this person grabbing me and trying to drag me away and not letting go no matter how much I screamed for them to stop and to others for help. Such a creepy feeling to wake up and realise they had called me.

        Thanks for the hugs, Goons! You’re such a delight!

    • TinyBreak@aussie.zone
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      8 days ago

      why the hell is someone calling you at 3:45? Unless someone is dead leave me the F alone. Most phones wont even ring at that time.