• Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    15 hours ago

    It can also work the other way around, unfortunately. Like no longer being able to listen to a certain band or whatever because it just reminds you too much of someone that you used to know.

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      7 hours ago

      Maybe they both exist and it’s about focusing on the ones you do want to remember and you do out of sentimentality and love.

    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      8 hours ago

      I would say it works this way more often than not. In my experience at least.

      And when they say that scent is strongly tied to memory, they’re not kidding. That shit is real.

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    It sounds like a conformist. Like don’t you have a sense of self? You poor soul. It sounds like attachment issues with the sprinkling of trauma. Specifically, childhood trauma. If you listen to some of these pop songs of nowadays and you’re like a psychologist, I mean, oh my god.

  • rockerface 🇺🇦@lemm.ee
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    1 day ago

    By reciprocity, other people also include you into their mosaic. Humanity is a giant mural made of interlocking pieces.

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    13 hours ago

    as a child I fell very hard for the meme that there had to be something in me behind the influence from others, and thought I was just a shell in comparison to everyone else

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    7 hours ago

    I love this. It’s so true of me.

    I eat phó because I had a shitty Vietnamese roommate who’s cool mom would make it for me from scratch. I make black beans with half a Buddweiser mixed in because it’s how my Cuban great grandma, grandma, and mom did it. I make corn tortillas from scratch because my Mexican girlfriend said store-bought is for lazy people. I go to tourist traps where I live because a girl I drove 3000 miles for who said, “never stop being a tourist in your own city.”

    My life is just this layered dozens of times.

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        Get your tortilla flour of choice. I buy Maseca Blue, but have had good success with others.

        5 parts flour, 4 parts water.

        I usually do a cup of flour and eyeball 80% of a cup water leaning on the light side. Mix and feel the texture. I like it to be wetter, feeling like clay after mixing. I look for large cracks, not sandy breakup.

        I know this is all conceptual, but cooking be that way sometimes.

        You can get a cast iron or wood tortilla press for under 15 bucks at your local thrift store. If not, roll them or press between pans, I guess.

        Some people use plastic between the press to prevent sticking. After doing this a few years, I prefer parchment paper. Don’t throw it out between uses, it gets better every time.

        Heat a comal or cast iron pan. No oil. NO OIL. flip it into the pan and don’t fuck up. If it folds on landing, scrap it. It’s toast, literally. Learning this is the hardest part.

        This is your lesson here. Bayless, despite being a gringo, is the man. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JBHQS-DEbI

  • Susaga@sh.itjust.works
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    I was introduced to one of my favourite game series by a lets play channel I don’t watch anymore. I was introduced to that lets play channel because they played a game I haven’t actually played myself. I was suggested that game by an ex partner. We first went out because I recognised an anime chartacter on her t-shirt. I haven’t seen the anime the character was from, but one of my friends has.

    The chain of fate is pretty stupid when you actually look at it. And now I’m sitting here, wondering how Ace Attorney is going to radically change my life.

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      18 hours ago

      Ace attorney is the reason why I use Tumblr. The chain is also pretty funny in my case. It was pokemon fanfiction, then someone wrote one involving ace attorney, then it spiraled from there.

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    I don’t understand. I’ve followed the instructions in the post but I still don’t have ramen

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    This one made me feel a lot of things.

    Many of the songs I sing are ones that once made others think of me. It still hurts.

    Some of the images I draw from are what others made for me. I still dream of them.

    Sometimes, there’s a scent passing me by, from their kitchen, his hiding spot, her bedroom. I’m still there.

    I may have to lay down for a bit.