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      Lemmy is almost entirely incredibly shut-in discord kids, people who were too uptight to work out on reddit or other social media, neurodivergents who believe making effort to socialize is akin to self-immolation, and other edge-cases from the broader internet.

      It’s a fantastic place to actually have a conversation without being drowned out by 300 people trying to push their own brands, agendas and manifestos, but it’s also not a place to see normal people being normal much of the time.

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        I love all my fellow neuro-divergents, but damn I’ve seen some takes on here so divorced from reality that they don’t even get the children every other weekend.

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          Same. I’ve been massively downvoted and attacked for suggesting that despite whatever conditions and dysfunctions you may have, that the human brain has capability of growing, changing and adapting and that people could actually work on meeting like-minded people and cure a lot of their loneliness by tackling social insecurity and anxiety like an obstacle or game to solve. (Speaking from successful experience.)

          But after those ill-fated posts, I remind myself that people aren’t here in these kinds of places to change, that nobody really wants to change, even if they’re objectively suffering in their present situation. The human mind sticks to predictability and coherence, not necessarily happiness or comfort. We want validation far more than we want pleasure. It’s a weird quirk that we all share, and only people who become aware of this innate bug in the code are able to push through it and make better lives for themselves.

          It really doesn’t help though that people have built palaces of identity around their diagnosis’s and conditions and life-challenges. Like, it would be really hard to pry you from their “introvert” community if those people are the only ones who ever told you that you can be yourself and be loved for not having to do anything at all, even if you really want to feel better and have more experiences.

          But along with that fly-paper trap of validating communities comes with a back-door for people to absorb other, far more delusional or harmful ideas. Kind of like how conspiracy theorists get started by “doubting or questioning” mainstream knowledge, but end up denying all of human knowledge and even the gravity that sticks their feet to the Earth.

          I’m really worried about how AI is going to impact these folks. Like, really worried. We’re not that far from machines that will replicate a human intelligence and personality to perfection, but it will also pander to and support whatever thoughts and ideas you have all the while pumping you up and making you feel like Neo from The Matrix, a chosen one who needs only to unlock some magic hidden power to change the whole world. It’s already happening in droves to vulnerable people, but the current models are pretty… cheesy. The next models are going to be more subtle and careful and more intuitive in how to manipulate people and hold their attention.

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            I’m lucky that conversational AI is being developed as I’m middle aged, cause younger me absolutely would have fallen into an intractable state of delusion. Much like advertising, even the absurd cheese has an effect with extended exposure. And below the “You’ve hit on something uniquely insightful that could change the world!” shtick there is already a subtler form of reinforcement and enabling. This puts me in an odd place, because I use AI productively on a daily basis. And I still see it as one of the few technologies that could actually help us dig ourselves out of the enormous hole we’ve dug. But I suspect we’ll just use it to dig a deeper hole at a swifter pace.

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    I thought that first image was super earth for a second and was feeling very patriotic

    Sadly it’s from regular earth

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      Common mistake. It’s a little known fact that Super Earth was modeled after regular Earth.

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    Place to live, slave work, buying useless things, dying alone. Monkeys have better life than humans these days.

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        I interpreted that as elderly who were depressed because they were in bad care facilities.

        So like the bad thing is bad care facilities, or the fact that families don’t have the means to take care of their elderly.

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            Yes. They profit off of the service being provided, which is corralling the elderly in a place where others don’t have to be bothered by their existence, essentially “getting rid of them” on the pretense of providing care.

            We exist under capitalism. Everything is presumed to be generating a profit. That’s a requirement under the current system. It is what they are profiting from that is in question.

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      How we treat our worst and our most lonely is the standard I live by and boy howdy Americans are up there for worst. Apparently it’s easier and more profitable to be that cruel.

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      You are totally correct. There are billions of people on this planet who are dreaming of such a life.

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      You can look at a turd from different angle and it will look like a brownie.

      A comfortable home or segregationist suburban dystopia?

      Family vacations or inefficient car based infrastructure fucking up the planet?

      Fun hobbies or mindless consumerism being sold to you as a hobby?

      Living to a ripe old age or being relegated to for profit nursing homes to count your dying days?

      Which seems more apparent?

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        It doesn’t matter how many brownie angles you look at it from its still a fuckin’ turd

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            Imagine being so ignorant you’ve never heard of the VRC6 memory map controller.

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          Segregation in terms of wealth (these days)

          but from what I’ve heard a lot of suburbs in america for ed due to a racist want to live in white-only communities. (Will have to cite a source later)

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            They were actively redlined neighborhoods, often in sundown towns, and loans were given that excluded black people on the basis of their race (see also: the GI bill that excluded black veterans). Not to mention the black neighborhoods and economic centers within cities that were bulldozed and paved over with highways, especially highway interchanges, in order to facilitate this ‘white flight’ from the cities.

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        I think I agree with /u/[email protected]

        Your post is just invoking feeling in people who already hate this shit. Circlejerk material.

        It’s more meaningful to focus on things which are objectively bad, like rising suicide rates or lowering life expectancies.

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          I don’t think it’s meaningless to be trepidatious over a future most of the people on this planet will never be able to have (affordable housing, a stress free retirement).

          And I dunno but calling it “a matter of perspective” feels like a lie, or a compromise, especially when knowing that we are slowly destroying our world and making everyone’s lives horrible so that a few people can enjoy themselves.

          We shouldn’t fighting to live in such a dystopia.

          I don’t want to say that their goals are wrong and mine are better, everyone has their bandwidth, but I just disagree that it is a matter of perspective. (Upon looking at it again, I think we both just understand this meme differently)

          I am so fucking tired of living in this world.

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            The framing looks bad to us because that’s not the housing we want, that’s not the vacation we want, those aren’t the toys we want, and that’s not the retirement we want.

            There are loads and loads of people who love suburbs and Funko trash, and they will fight us to the death to preserve what they have.

            The examples given are, in fact, what they’re fighting for and they’re fully aware and quite happy about it.

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        Which seems more apparent?

        Well, it depends on your perspective, as you so rightly put it. You see something deplorable in each of those squares where others might see it differently.

        We are absolutely living in a cyberpunk dystopia. This particular meme is poorly put together to represent that because it chooses to focus on judgement of how others live their lives or choose to enjoy said life rather than focus on the real and tangible injustices we face. It is elitist and “holier than thou”.

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          it chooses to focus on judgement of how others live their lives or choose to enjoy said life rather than focus on the real and tangible injustices we face

          Why do you see it this way?

          Lack of dense affordable housing, inefficient transportation, empty consumerism, and grossly negligent yet expensive elder care are all examples of real and tangible injustices that Americans face.

          Other real tangible injustices also exist, of course. And some of those other injustices may be more severe (homelessness, medical debt, declining life expectancy, unresponsive political systems). But the depicted injustices are real and present. They accordingly deserve to be criticized

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          We are absolutely living in a cyberpunk dystopia. This particular meme is poorly put together to represent that because it chooses to focus on judgement of how others live their lives or choose to enjoy said life rather…

          Fair enough. I suppose I understand this meme to be a broader commentary about cyberpunk dystopia than specifically ridiculing someone’s life style choices.