A few weeks ago, after I got out of the shower, my girlfriend and I were joking around about how cold it was. She looked down, laughed, and made a comment about how small I looked. We both thought it was funny in the moment. She asked if she could take a picture — we both have vault apps for stuff like that — and I agreed, as long as she deleted it right after. She did, or so I thought.
Fast forward a week later: we’d just come back from a trip, and she was showing photos to two of her friends. I was sitting across the room when I suddenly saw both girls freeze, then burst out laughing. They looked right at me — and I knew. One of those photos had slipped through. My girlfriend looked horrified, took the phone back, and apologized immediately. Her friends tried to change the subject, but the damage was done.
After they left, she came upstairs crying. I was upset at first, but it was clear she felt terrible. I told her it was okay, even though I was completely humiliated.
It’s been a little while, and I still can’t shake the feeling. I keep replaying that moment in my head — them laughing, looking right at me. I know it wasn’t intentional, but I honestly don’t know how to stop feeling so exposed.
Has anyone else gone through something like this? How do you move on?
Fluff a little, have your GF take another pic and have her orchestrate some situation in which she accidentally shows her friend that fluffed dick pic. It’s only fair.
Honestly though, is the problem more because you’re embarrassed about penis size or that they saw a pic of your dick?
We’re all animals. We have genitals. It’s not a big deal. Nudity is such a taboo in western societies and penis size is such a scam.
I would address it with them so it’s not some constant elephant in the room. You can then gauge if they’re cool about it or not. If they make you feel uncomfortable then you need to be vocal about it and your gf should back you up. Imagine if it was the other way around. You’d be a complete asshole to joke about some girl’s nude pic that you accidentally saw.
More so about how much small I looked in the picture. I get what you’re saying about everyone having genitals, but it was embarrassingly small (the reason we took the pic). My gf will tell them that, but it doesn’t get the image out of their head.
Fuck off, liar.