For me… yea that’s gonna be a challenge. I’m glad a text-based social platform exist, I hate talking. Maybe I’d just use morse code…?
I didn’t want to join a WoW guild bc they mandated TS - which obviously makes sense. Back then, no chance. Today? Maybe? If there’s an interesting conversation.
No, but only because I have a slight speech impairment that I am self conscious about.
These days there is FT8, where the whole conversation follows a template (callsign, callsign, signal strength on a scale of 1 to 9, goodbye) and is just a few dozen characters long. It can be completely automated, so you can have one to one contacts with hundreds of total strangers in just a few hours, with your radio doing all the talking so you don’t have to show your vulnerable side. You can sleep or play tetris through the whole session, and then get a list afterwards showing the different countries where your radio has gotten to know people (or at least other radios). It is great for shy hams.
Tbh I’d probably just stick to books and stuff if ham radio would be my only option. I was reluctant to get into social media in the first place anyway.
How do you people function in society? Do you not have to speak to others for your job?
I used to be way more extroverted, but even as my now more introverted self I can still go talk to anyone about anything in person or over the phone. I do not understand how people can function as a member of society without the ability to speak to other people using their voices.
I can talk on the phone - if left with no other choice. And then I need to lie down because it’s exhausting as fuck.
Good lord. You go to therapy for that? That is beyond not normal.
It comes up every once in a while in therapy.
In case you’re interested: The problem for me is that I can’t see the other person’s face so I have trouble judging their reactions. Are they mad at me, are they confused by what I said, are they joking around? When in doubt, I tend to default to the worst possibility so I’m constantly on the defense. That’s what’s exhausting about it. It’s a little easier with friends and family because I can of course interpret their voices more easily but I still don’t enjoy it. I know it’s not “normal” but it’s also not something that’s going to change anytime soon.
Sucks you’re affected badly by this. I think those of us that grew up before texting and IM don’t have this problem so badly. It doesn’t bother me and I’ve got serious anxiety issues. I can talk on the phone with bosses, whatever, but sending me a text that says “We need to talk” with no follow-up is such a dick move.
Nothing to do with texting, I’m old. 🤷
Social anxiety is not at all uncommon. Therapy would only really be beneficial if the anxiety was causing problems in a person’s life. It could be that the person you replied to may need to lie down after a phone call, and is then fully functional afterward. Unless they’re bothered by this process or it somehow impedes upon their day-to-day life, it otherwise would seem like they already have their recovery mechanisms figured out and are doing well for themself. They’re playing the hand they were dealt, and they’re still in the game.
Ham Radio has APRS, which could be considered a “text based social platform”.
FT8 for pretty maps and SSTV to xmit memes sounds pretty good. Winlink if I’m feeling adventurous.
What’s winlink?
email.
Oh damn so…what? It transmits the contents into a format that actually registers as email? Some sort of analog to digital conversion?
You’re a couple layers off in the protocol stack, but yes. AFSK (Audio Frequency Shift Keying) is a method by which digital data can be encoded on a narrow audio stream. It’s basically an old-school dial-up modem.
You can create and/or interpret those audio streams on a smartphone or computer via a headphone jack to pump them to/from the radio.
Morse code.
Plus there are all the digital modes, and back in 96? I… genuinely found interest and joy in packet radio.
Plus there were dial up BBS’s, and through the magic of FIDOnet you could still reach an amazingly long range.
Then there is the fact that if you had an account and access number to the local server node. There was Usenet.
Asking what happens without the internet misses and disregards all of these more localized digital communities.
Am trans, crippling anxiety of having to explain my voice to people. In person I can at least hide behind my titties and give people who accidentally misgender me the eyebrow raise
lol, I’m currently licensed and have never put my voice out on radio.
A large subset of introverts won’t use text based communications such as this; they lurk so whatever negative response here need a multiplier applied.
The 90-9-1 rule would indicate the factor is 9.
90 lurkers, nine commenters, and one poster?
It’s not so much lack of courage as it is I don’t want to talk to you. I certainly don’t want to hear all of you. Hell I avoid spoken social media now as it is.
Yeah, there’s days I can’t even listen to podcasts or the radio with people I actually like hearing because I’m so sick of listening to people talk. No fucking way I’d be interested in listening to randos and I hate talking.
