Literally me_irl

Yes? Go on, tell me what I’m gonna find out. Whatchu gonna show me? <w<

Thomas has not commented publicly on the latest lawsuit. Despite her expressed intention to keep swimming competitively after college, Thomas has been barred from international events by the rules of World Aquatics, which only qualify transgender athletes who have not experienced biological puberty.

Maybe I’m just really fucking jaded from a lifetime of garbage, but honestly, girl… You’re probably better off. Cis people fucking suck. In my experience most cis people, cis men especially, are extremely toxic, hateful and again, in my experience tend to wish trans people simply didn’t exist. To them we are inconvenient at best, offensive at worst, and a walking fetish at its ugliest. I tend to avoid hanging out with too many cis people IRL nowadays because it’s rare for me to encounter a cis person who is understanding and supportive.

Yeah, it sucks that the sport you love has decided to abandon you, but show yourself off to the people who will actually appreciate you. Don’t waste your time on people who will never care about you for who you are and will always hate you for the imperfections they perceive you as having.

Also this entire article was, unsurprisingly, very dysphoria-inducing. Not like there was a way the news could be presented in a way that wouldn’t induce dysphoria, but… for those of you who are cis and want to actually be more understanding, there’s a lot in this article that induces severe dysphoria; especially the highlighted section. Most of us don’t get the chance to go on puberty blockers before puberty, so the testosterone damages our bodies throughout highschool which can be a very traumatic experience.

A lot of us don’t get to start transitioning until later in life. I didn’t get to start until I was 30. The idea of people starting hrt the moment they go off to college and have some level of personal freedom is new. As such, the older the trans woman, the more masculine they’ll typically appear, regardless of how long they’ve been on hrt. I have a 20yr old friend who started hrt about a year after becoming an adult. She looks cis at this point. Meanwhile, I will likely never be confused for being a cis woman; I will likely always be seen as a trans woman, aka something lesser than a “”“real”“” woman in the eyes of a cis person.

Furthermore, a lot of us in the US will never get to have bottom surgery, breast augmentation, hip augmentation, facial feminization surgery, etc done due to the obscene cost; which further reinforces the cis bigotry of, “oh, but you’re not a real woman because you don’t have a vagina, or wide hips, or are just generally not feminine enough. You’re not trying hard enough so you’re not a real woman”.

Forgive my anger, I’m extremely jaded and cynical at this point. I do not have very many cis people in my life who are willing to accept me for who I am but instead want to shove me back into the “man box”. I cherish the ones who seem to see me as being fully woman, regardless of my masculine traits; but most cis people don’t. Most cis people see me as a wannabe woman at best, or something distasteful and offensive at worst.

If you’re a dom, prove it >w>

Are you a dom?

Man up, stop crying. Walk it off. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. It builds character.

talk over all female characters because you know better than them. Disregard professional advice if it comes from a female character. Ask if you can get a second opinion, but only if the first one comes from a female character. Females are lower than men. Your job is to provide for them. They do not have the emotional stability to run anything. That’s why they clean, cook, and take care of children. That is why men handle politics, governance, leadership, and other important roles. Wo- cough Females can’t be trusted to be stable enough to handle such big tasks. You are important. You are big and dominant. Feeeeemales are small and submissive.

Real men have muscles. Real men don’t cry. Real men are physically strong. Real men are stoic, only showing emotion in instances of overwhelming happiness or loss. Real men know how to fight. Real men never back down. Real men never run away. Real men can do anything. As a man, you own the world around you, including feeeeemales.

I can keep going, but tbh I feel gross. I had to deal with a lot of this as a kid. I don’t think my parents realized how gross the male adults around me were, otherwise I’m pretty sure they would have been shocked and appalled by it.

Ngl, that seems like a terrible idea. I mean, look at me. I use Lemmy. Granted, I’m a very subby bottom, but ye.

Imagine having a hot dommy lesbian girlfriend. Couldn’t be meeee.

I don’t even know where to look.

Heretic. Something about that word feels very relevant in modern society…

I’m actually kinda concerned that’s part of the plan, but with the federal government instead of state. Plan a big “bailout” that involves buying all the bankrupt farmers and then use that to withhold food from dissidents.

That’s great but if they go bust, we starve.

Meanwhile I’ve seen videos of a woman somehow taking a dildo in her vagina that should have reached all the way into her chest cavity. I don’t know how that works, but it scared me; which meant I had to send it to all my fem friends c:

It’s honestly still appreciated.

Tbf it’s been a long time since I watched any movies with Disney princesses, but I’m pretty sure the ones I remember watching tended to reinforce stereotypes.

Oh lord, I’d never thought about how misogynistic the Disney princesses are. Gotta teach little girls that even princesses do the house cleaning.

I meant that I’m too numb to feel anything. As much as I need them, affirmations don’t do anything for me anymore except make me feel even more numb and fake. I appreciate what you’re trying to do though.

The setting is fun. The author is garbage. Also don’t think too hard about the characters or the way different magical races are portrayed.

God, what a fucking mood.

I’m too numb :c

Thanks tho.

Siphonophores. Extremely alien looking colonial organisms. Iirc they are, by far, the longest known aquatic creatures.