Yo también.
Pudutr0n
“Si miras fijamente al pudú, el pudú te devuelve la mirada.”
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Cake day: June 12th, 2023
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0·7 days agoI have everything in my kitchen?
First, I get a big block of cheese. Then I take a generous bite off the the block of cheese, chew and swallow. Next, I place the potato in the garbage and carefully close the lid. Finally, I continue consuming the cheese until the cheese is no more.
I just realized this is c/cooking and not lemmy shitpost. Err… Sorry. Your recipe sounds really good, by the way.
Claro, se entendió, y sí, la holgura monetaria puede evitar mucho estrés y en ese sentido es muy útil. Pa eso, la raja. Creo que la clase, sin embargo, como cualquier pertenencia tribal, es tan valiosa como la calidad humana que se manifiesta de los otros miembros de la tribu.
Hai cachado que en los juegos online competitivos como LoL las comunidades son re tóxicas? Y que en los juegos online colaborativos son más piola y hasta a veces sanas? Y hai cachao que mientras más arriba llegai en cualquier ranking de cualquier juego, por tonto que sea, más competitiva y más en serio se lo toma la gente? Y más sacrificios hacen pa mejorar o defender su ranking? He visto que estos patrones se replican bastante en todo tipo de agrupaciones tribales.
Espero que tengas un maravilloso fin de semana. <3
La única clase q importa no acepta a partir de mone’a ni pituto y no está ni allí si soy ruci@. Y en esa, queride, ud ya está en las grandes ligas. <3
Yes, it is snekerpimp. Good catch.
Agregué sobre un meme que pillé en historymemes y
encuentro que me quedó pulento.
Los últimos 2 son míos.
Lo postee en lemmy shitpost, pero quería compartirlo con uds tb. Ahora ver qué pasa.
Frankly, our Freedom® Plus Gold® pack is the best deal, if you ask me.
Thanks for reading. Gonna look it up right now.
I appreciate you taking the time to suggest steps for a better society. I followed the link and read what was available, but there were only a few pages until the index + the front and back cover. I’ll probably look into finding a full copy later. Thanks for thinking about us. <3
I'd like to share my personal story if that's ok. Wall of text incoming and only read if you genuinely want to.
I want to share this because I have an honest question from a place of wanting to be a better person. I realize this isn’t about me, but in order for me to be in service of people other than myself, it is necessary for me to understand some things. I’m respectfully requesting help with that, to you or those willing to educate.
The second part of the meme hits really close to home to me because it’s something lots of men are taught at a young age in a traumatic manner. In my case I can’t count the amount of times I was told to “be a man” or asked if I was “gonna cry like a girl” which could happen literally anywhere by anyone, especially caretakers.
I went to an all boys school. I vividly remember the father of one of my classmates coming to talk to the class when my classmate missed school one day. He begged. Literally, begged to the class to stop teasing and bullying his son because he was going to kill himself any day. This was the 8th grade and was not a one time thing. He was a sensitive kid and got teased for it. He got called the f word a lot in a place and time where coming out of the closet as sexually diverse was considered “valid” grounds for physical violence/abuse by most men. Verbal abuse at the very least.
I was a weird and sensitive kid myself and got teased and bullied as well, but never that much. Was really timid, awkward and shy, but I usually got away with not being beaten up all the time or being straight out emotionally tortured all day like some were, by letting other kids cheat off me. This got me “protection” from some bullies that sat next to me. When I think about how I felt back when I was a kid, all I can remember is fear and wanting to be invisible. Constant fear. I had a whole lot of anger too, but usually lashed out on myself alone. Too scared of everything and everyone to get angry at anyone but myself. My family setting wasn’t a picnic either, but that’s a different story.
Basically, any time anyone gave me any kind of attention, including my parents, I perceived it as a dangerous threatening situation that made me feel uneasy.
I realize most people have been wronged by one or more men in much worse ways. I’m sorry and those of us who have harmed or still harm have no excuse. I shared my story so you understood what became my responsibility and duty to unlearn and remedy to not continue the endless samsara of victimization. I genuinely have been putting in the work I’ve found useful to help me stop causing people harm. Have taken this very seriously for more than decade now.
Here’s my question, in honest good faith.
Do you understand that a book that is intended to be used as a blueprint for positive masculinity that begins by requiring men to “understand patriarchy” can feel, to some men, like when catholic missionaries went to “uncivilized cultures” and made sure everyone “understood the gospel” and was very clear about having original sin and being impure and them needing to be saved?
This is not a rhetoric device I want to use against you or anyone. I am requesting empathy and suggestions on how to deal with this. Like, do you understand that it feels like some people are telling us men that we are devoid of value or have no legitimacy as humans unless we adhere to a specific belief system or “treatment”? Do you have any advice or suggestions for us or idk can you offer insight?
I realize many broken people such as myself and my classmates can become full grown monsters and society should do something that avoids monsters being bred and to treat, lock or remove people that have become monsters.
I just want to know if you understand this, and if you do, my request is you please share your thoughts.
Well I do because it’s awesome. Personally I’m more of a Volume 2 guy, but also enjoy the masterfully subtle metaphors on Volume 1.
Is it ok to say I love that you’re using that reference as your username?
Appreciate the support! <3
I mean everyone gets allergic from time to time but a thoughtful person will see this and adjust.
I guess It’s hard for people to feel empathy towards those who they identify as the culprits of their suffering. And since, as humans, we have trouble separating the blame of individuals with the blame of the tribes they belong to… yeah, some people consider men the problem with an occasional “but not you/him” just like some other people consider feminism/sts the problem with an occasional “but not this part/these ones”.
I think hit the nail on the head, though. It’s important for all of us to remind ourselves compassion and empathy regularly, even when difficult, because as many gender theorists and feminists have taught us, some people don’t adhere to social norm or convention. Understanding this is understanding that blaming a full demographic for anything is not only unfair and lazy, it also leads to the very worst in all of us.
Have a great day and stay awesome!
There is nothing universally sexier than knowing exactly who you are and being perfectly satisfied with it. Good for you, man. Congrats for the bun in the oven too. <3
Are you under the impression I’m conveying there is no problem?
De nada, Estimadísimo.
Entiendo que te dé cosa. Suena feo y puede que te miren feo, pero la ética está de tu lado. Si pa ellos tú eres un ‘ordenador de paquetes con pies’ y nada más, es sensato que para ti ellos sean una ‘máquina que transforma ordenado de paquetes en dinero candiense’ y nada más.
Y también po. El trabajo físico es desgastante y cuando son los mismos movimientos repetitivos todo el día… Y no es como que alguien se la haya jugado recomendándote y ahora va a quedar mal. Te pueden tratar de hacer sentir mal por renunciar pa no contratar nuevamente, pero tú como ser humano les das lo mismo a la organización y digan lo que digan, tú no les debes nada. Ni explicaciones ni disculpas. Mejor sería ser cordial, sí, pero así como deber moral 0.
Yo creo, honestamente, que puedes hacer todo lo que te pidan. Sinceramente. La pregunta es si estás dispuesto a asumir los sacrificios que conlleva o no.
Pero me alegro mucho que hayas subido de nivel! Si te salió otra oportunidad es porque ahora ya no estás en survival pegándole combos a los árboles, sino que puedes elegir si prefieres minar o construir o craftear y en qué materiales enfocarte.
Nuevamente, me alegro por ti y te felicito. Te comento tb que eres objeto y merecedor de toda mi admiración. Me encantaría haber hecho o incluso hacer lo mismo pero no tuve/tengo los cojones/el coraje como para dar el salto.
No sé si viste batman: The dark knight rises, pero había una escena en que hablaban de cómo la única persona jamás que había escapado de un lugar muy temible del cual había que escapar escalando. Uno de los momentos que más me marcó de la película.
Te podrá sonar estúpido o exagerado, pero en mi mente, ese eres tú. Saliendo a través de una escalada que pocos tienen la valentía de llevar a cabo. Y yo estoy mirando desde abajo, completamente admirado e inspirado por tu hazaña.
Eres un grande. Tenlo claro.
OC.
If you got the reference, despite you probably knowing you should be doing your taxes or performing any other kind of inevitable obligation to some large organization, consuming some kind of self improvement content or making sure tiny humans somewhere don’t die, giving yourself a break and showing yourself compassion is also an important part of self care. I try to remind that to myself a lot but somehow it still slips my mind from time to time.
And if you don’t get the reference, your penalty for being born later than me is telling whoever you consider family you love or care for them sometime soon. You’ll know when the time is right. Also, sorry for how my generation is.
Thanks but it’s rude to go commenting on other people’s racks like that, you know.
If you are lucky enough to be allowed to play with them it’s pretty safe to say something nice, but if they’re the first thing you mention or you space out staring at them, it’s like the dishwasher doesn’t even matter and you only care about the rack.
We all love handling a good rack but a good dishwasher isn’t an easy thing to come across. Focusing on just one part is kind of like invalidating all the sacrifices and hard work that are necessary for a functional dishwasher.
Maybe you don’t care about any of that and just want to put your hands on or look at a nice rack. That’s perfectly fine, but if it’s the case you might want to consider getting your own rack.
Have a nice day! :)
Yapu!