What do you mean by “no DEI”?

I have toddlers I think that answers your question

Your coworkers are fucking idiots.

My dude, the Internet he grew up in wasn’t the wild west. You make it seem like anything pre-2016 was the wild west when it absolutely was not. He absolutely knew what he was doing, just because he chose to associate with a certain culture doesn’t absolve him of what happened because of it. You could, AND STILL CAN, go find communities that are like what he was about…

You’re doing a lot of revisionist history for a grown ass man doing grown ass shit.

Here you dropped: mayo monkey and vanilla gorilla