I wanted to move to my grandma’s place (actually only travel there to sleep) because I can’t sleep in my apartment.

The problem is her place is literally disgusting and she gets mad when anyone cleans it.

She literally never vacuums and there’s tons of dust everywhere and moths. It’s been this way since forever. I tried to ask if we could at least vaccuum and she didn’t let me, there’s disgusting stuff caked onto the rugs on the floor idek what it is.

The curtains are also covered in dust. She doesn’t have a washing machine and I asked if I could bring them to my place to wash them and she refused.

She told me I would be sleeping in the bigger bedroom, and also told me I wasn’t allowed to open the windows. Like literally ever.

Now all of a sudden she changed her mind and told me I would be sleeping in my dead great grandma’s room. I told her many times I refuse to sleep on the mattress she died in, it’s literally 100 years old and caved in too.

I told her we could buy her a new mattress and she refuses. It’s so f**** disgusting.

Not only that but she has the audacity to start bossing me around about random crap and telling me what to do. Jesus now I remember why I avoided speaking to her for so long, she’s insufferable to be around

Not to mention that room has a balcony on it too, and my grandma always wakes up at like 6am and enters going back and forth back and forth hanging laundry

She won’t even wash the fucking dishes and pots and cutlery (only wipes them with a rag) and gets ANNOYED and OFFENDED when you ask if you yourself can wash them first. She also gets OFFENDED if I don’t want to eat any of her disgusting food made with extremely suspicious hygiene practices (last time I ate it I had the worst diarrhea of my life for a week).

For some reason that didn’t seem to bother her at all. Instead I am the problem for wanting basic hygiene.

Then she got offended when I brought a small kitchen sponge for myself, because she said she “already has one” it’s some GIANT bath sponge, have of it is missing from overuse, it’s turned BROWN and probably 5 years old