Yes, it’s true in some cases.
It’s not really that surprising. Just as there are straight men who are misogynist there are people who are attracted to femboys, trans people, and/or other gender nonconforming people who hold prejudices against the same group. It’s massively oversimplifying human psychology to think it just comes down to a single linear axis of like/dislike. For some people, it might be that simple, but it’s not always the case.
Take the song Hellfire and replace Esmeralda with a femboy, everything else can stay the same.
Instead of simply accepting that one might be attracted to a spectrum of different kinds of people, they immediately feel internal guilt, directed outwards as hatred, because it might give them some sort of label they’ve been trained to despise.
I think this is true for a lot of prejudices. Pron sites have released data showing deep red states where one might imagine more racist people live searching for interracial videos.
This is absolutely a real trend suppted by data
https://lawsuit.org/general-law/republicans-have-an-obsession-with-transgender-pornography/
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/pornhub-reports-explosion-searches-transgender-194508061.html
Conservative areas are more religious, and Christianity uses sexual shame and repression as a control mechanism. A trans attracted Christian is trained to hate them but still think trans people are attractive.
Your friend is pulling “facts” out of their ass.
I sent him a screenshot of this comment and he told me that you and me should both touch grass.
Lol he mad
Tbh I think most people on Lemmy need to touch grass more often ¯\(°_o)/¯ Your friend sounds alright, for someone who pulls “facts” out of his ass. 😂
Can I smoke grass instead?
Yes, Feelzgoodman420, you may indeed smoke the grass.
Ironic, because everyone that was familiar with the hellsite formerly known as 4chan both knows the statement is true and doesn’t touch grass.
I think femininity itself is the more fetishized component, so it just means the femboy is successfully femming.
Especially when you consider how right wingers tend to interpret gender roles.
Kinks transcend political ideology. Roger Stone was famously into getting cuckold.
Femboys don’t even need the right-wingers’ help at all. They fetishize themselves and it is in of itself a fetish. I would know given by the amount of furry porn that encircles around femboys in general. And unfortunately, they are some of the loudest and pretend all femboys want to just be cock-slaves and cock-sleeves.
I don’t love the take “men dressing feminine is a fetish.” Are tomboys a fetish? Just because some people choose to engage in fetish and also are femboys doesn’t make it “in and of itself” a fetish. It isn’t.
Hey, blame the ones who’re louder about it, I didn’t fetishize them. Go talk to the furries first.
Oh yeah, the most radical and anti lgbtq people tend to jerk off to boipussy feminine penises and rape other men. No, to them this is not gay.
Yes entirety of 4chan is deficated to femboys and russian army training involves forced male on male intercourse as hazing.
The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.
Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or “dgaf” about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.
I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.
I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.
Every conservative i know personally is ultra repressed, so at least anecdotally, this tracks.
I’ve met some that were malleable, but the moment I brought up some gay shit (I’m cis het btw) they shut the fuck up.
I wish I was who I am now in grade school.
Depends what he means by that. Are some right-wingers fetishizing femboys? Yeah. Can we generalize this to apply to all right-wingers as people have tendency to do with this sort of things? No. Turns out that people are individuals and they have different preferences. Shocker.
It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn’t seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.
“FreedomAdvocate” just immediately sounds like a troll account. Aaaannnnd the comment history is almost nothing but trolling. Surprise surprise.
What you define as trolling is apparently very different to what actual trolling is.
Why does almost every “progressive” think that anyone saying things they disagree with is “trolling”? Genuine question. Is it because you can’t fathom anyone not sharing the same views as you, so you think that they must be deliberately saying argumentative arguments to try and get a reaction?
Yes, pretending you have questions when you just have insults is a great example of trolling.
What are you talking about? Where did I “pretend I have questions but just have insults”? Where did I even insult anyone in my post that you replied to? Here it is, please show me:
It seems to be a common left-winger fantasy that right-wingers are secretly obsessed with gays/trans/femboys/queer/etc sexually. Doesn’t seem to be based on any truth, just your typical left/right wing rubbish.
Insult…where? You just saw an opinion that you didn’t agree with and therefor didn’t like and just went straight to “they’re trolling”.
Cool, so you found what…6 people who might possibly be gay or like some strange stuff? And that then means that all “right-wingers” are the same? So if I was to find say 6 instances of a left-winger being a pedo, does that mean that all left-wingers are pedos?
Welcome to Lemmy, where anecdotal evidence apparently = facts and people pull truth out of their asses.
Homophobia is absolute rife in the left-wing community btw.
Which is why you provided examples. I wonder if there is an explicit historical difference in party platforms.
Was is it Clinton who ignored the AIDS epidemic until it became a crisis and told a supposed friend to fuck off when they were dying?
You actually want me to provide 6 examples of left-wing homophobia, or pedos, or anything else like that? You seriously don’t think that any left-wing people do bad things?
The point is that there’s no “right wingers are all closet homosexuals”, just like there’s no “left wingers are all closet pedos”. How did you not get that? Are there some, even lots, on both sides? Absolutely.
You’re right in that individual examples prove nothing, but the evidence suggests something larger at play.
I’ve provided examples of individual and institutional homophobia - you’ve failed to even suggest evidence of the former. I would not deny that individual “left wingers” (idk if you distinguish between leftists and liberals in the same way I do) that are homophobic - but I don’t think I’ve seen any evidence that progressive ideologies are institutionally homophobic. Feel free to provide some evidence though!
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A “drip drip” is a usual consequence of hot sweaty mansex.
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I don’t know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.
“It’s not gay if they look like a girl” basically.
I think it’s more like, “I’m not gay if a guy sucks my dick, but I’m gay if I suck his.”
To Republicans, being “gay” and giving pleasure are submissive, non-masculine traits that go hand in hand. It’s why they are so hesitant to go down on a woman, even though it would not be gay for a man to do so.
Imagine you’re a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don’t like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man…
…a couch!
They’re about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.
I don’t think it’s widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I’m hyperhorny, like the only reason I’m femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as “failed males” and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There’s also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical “slut” that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.
I’m very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn’t feel safe going femmode outside.
What is a femboy honestly? A straight? feminine man?
Boy in skirt. Often a half-closeted trans woman, but not necessarily so.
Just an effeminate man. I don’t know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I’d say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you’re probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.
