To those who live in or who have visited the United States.

Growing up in the 90’s, the “minimum acceptable” tip was 10%, average was 15%, and a good tip was 20%. These days, I just round to the nearest dollar and tip 20%, but I’ve heard these days it’s not unusual to tip up to 40%!

What do you usually do?

  • andrewta@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    20% for excellent service.

    It goes down from there. Yes zero tip is acceptable if the service sucked. If I ordered medium rare steak and I get well done steak. I normally won’t deduct that from the tip since that is a hard one for the server to see. But if it’s something they could have seen and didn’t fix, yeah I’m probably reducing the tip.

    The tip is for service above and beyond, not a required part of the bill.

    • monsterpiece42@reddthat.com
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      2 months ago

      If my food sucks and the service was good, I tip them specifically in cash and tell them not to mention it, so it looks like I didn’t tip to the restaurant but it doesn’t screw the wait staff. It also makes the restaurant pay just a tiny bit more in payroll.

  • otp@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    I was going to answer, but then you clarified on the body of your post that you only wanted answers from people in the US, lol

  • Kalcifer@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Zero. I believe that the negotiations of an employee’s market value are between the employee and their employer. I don’t believe that it is my responsibility to charitably subsidize a company through the subsidization of their employees’ wages.

  • xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    15% flat always. Canada has sadly embraced tipping culture so I’ll not deny anyone the going rate or judge them at their workplace - but Vancouver is also expensive as fuck and anything over 15% starts putting meals close to the 100$ mark.

  • Zak@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    In the USA: 20%. In Europe: 10%. If service is exceptional or bad, I adjust up or down.

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      2 months ago

      Please don’t fucking tip in Europe, tipping culture isn’t normalized there and servers actually get a fair wage.

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        2 months ago

        Tipping at restaurants is already normal in Germany, France, and Italy if there is not a service charge on the check.

    • dan00@lemm.ee
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      2 months ago

      Stop tipping in EU. Last time someone asked me to tip in Germany got a 1 star review.

  • Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu
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    2 months ago

    When I have been in the us I used to tip around 15%. Accepted that as a weirdness of the us.

    On my home country tipping is just weird and unheard of, so 0%.

    Edit: last time I was in the us was like 15 years ago.

  • gm0n3y@lemm.ee
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    2 months ago

    Typically 20-25 at a restaurant. I’m not a fan of tipping for transactions where I’m not served. I only tip when someone does something.

  • nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    i live in vietnam. it’s a poor country. but restaurant workers here get paid in money, so they don’t need to work for gratuity. it would be strange or insulting if you tried to give extra money to the staff.

  • rozwud@beehaw.org
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    2 months ago

    I typically calculate a 20% tip and then round up. For demographic purposes, I’m a millennial in the US.

  • zer0@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    As a transplant I refuse the whole US tipping system and stick to the way of “rounding it up”. It often ends up around 10% of the bill but % tipping seems absolutely stupid as you are being punished for buying more. A few rare times I actually tipped 20% because the service was very good. Nobody tips me on my job and on average I make less than these people so I don’t see the logical connection of this whole stupid tipping culture