• exasperation@lemm.ee
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    6 days ago

    You described a lot of effort on your end to keep that relationship going. That’s what I mean. Relationships require maintenance.

    • Taalen@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      Putting in effort does not mean it was strictly necessary. And I’ve never said you shouldn’t put in effort. Just that deep friendships often are low maintenance and will weather even long silent periods. High maintenance relationships will not.